The glamour, prestige, and the fairy tale are waiting for you if you date someone famous. At first glance, the idea of dating a celebrity may seem like a good idea, but there’s a lot you might not have considered just yet.
Dating a famous person isn’t incredibly difficult; these folks are regular people like you. The only thing you have to worry about is finding them. The odds of finding them is difficult. It starts with finding a way to be at the events these individuals might attend.
You’ll have to do some research to find out where these famous business moguls, entertainers, or notable politicians may be. The rest is going to rely on chance, your charms, and that special spark all couples need to light the fire. You shouldn’t hold your breath because all of this doesn’t guarantee anything.
What are the disadvantages of dating someone famous?
Here you are, on the verge of dating someone notable, and if that’s really what you want, you should recognize the challenges you might face. If you can deal with these changes, then you might be able to have a fruitful relationship.
1. Limelight Disadvantage
A major disadvantage of being involved with a celebrity is the scrutiny you might be under. Depending on how big the person you are dating is, your life might be put under a microscope. People want to know who you are and who you might have been before.
Mistakes are going to be highlighted like never before, which can feel overwhelming. If you continue to live a normal life, these stories could put you in a negative light with the people you interact with regularly. This can happen because the limelight creates a negative narrative about you, which can change people’s opinions about your character.
2. Being on Call
Some celebrities keep a strange schedule for whatever reason. This is freeing for them, but if you are a regular person, you may have a normal schedule. It’s going to be hard to pick up the phone in the wee hours of the night after a while.
You won’t be able to accept an invitation in the middle of the week without notice. This could put a strain on your relationship, and it could make it hard to keep your professional life. You won’t be able to keep that job if you call out at random times because the person you are dating wanted to hang out with you.
3. Crazy Fans
Okay, famous people can have crazy fans, and that might become a problem for you. It is no secret that you are probably expecting to deal with some crazy fans, but the reality is that some fans can get under your skin. Maybe you’ll get hate mail; maybe you’ll see negative comments about you because you are dating this notable person.
Normal people don’t usually have to deal with a lot of hateful comments, but if you date a celebrity, you might have to. All of this could take a significant toll on you, and no one wants that. Even if you don’t think you’ll be affected, studies show how easily these types of attacks could hurt you.
The likelihood of dealing with paparazzi depends on the celebrity you are dating, but it is there. These individuals are doing their job, and this is something most people understand, but that doesn’t stop it from being disturbing.
As a regular person, you are probably used to going out, having lunch, and going grocery shopping without someone paying attention to you. This is a freedom you can kiss goodbye because paparazzi can catch you when you least expect it. Maybe they’ll snap a picture of sweat stains, or maybe you’ll get caught making a weird expression. These are things you didn’t have to worry about before you started dating a celebrity.
Dating a celebrity can be lonely. This is not definitely going to happen, but a successful person will probably be quite busy. If you are going to continue to have a regular job, then obligations may stop you from spending time with your beloved.
Most couples stay strong because they spend time together, but you won’t always be able to. The good thing is that there are effective ways to make up for the time you aren’t together, like making sure you text each other or have video calls. It might also be a good idea to work on trust because when you are away from each other trust becomes even more vital.
6. Advantageous People
Dating a celebrity could also change your friends and maybe even family members. That may not be great to see. Sure, some people you know won’t change, but those who do might see you as a way out.
These friends or family members might become upset with you because you aren’t giving them access to this person you are dating. You know how strange it would be to use your celebrity partner to make other people’s wishes come true. Life simply doesn’t work like that, and this person you are dating is probably not going to like that. Hopefully, none of this happens, but there’s a chance that relationships you hold dear might be fractured.
7. Jealousy Testing
Groupies are something many celebrities deal with. The reality is that people in power are attractive to a lot of people, and many of those people are willing to go to extreme lengths to get to your celebrity boyfriend or girlfriend. The temptation is going be around these individuals all the time, and it’s something you’ll have to learn to live with.
You need to be able to trust your partner. Relationships usually can’t survive if one or the other is constantly jealous because it creates tension, and that’ll suck the joy out of anything. It may be a good idea to talk to a couple’s therapist to see if he or she could help develop tools that should make it easier for you to control your jealousy.
8. Self-Esteem Challenge
Another reality you may have to come to terms with is your self-esteem. Before this relationship, you probably felt pretty good about yourself, but now things have suddenly changed. You are meeting successful people and starting to see the kind of people who surround your celebrity boyfriend or girlfriend.
Successful people have access to a professional stylist, professional skincare specialist, and dentist. Regular folks may have access but not to the same degree. This means some people you meet might make you feel self-conscious about your looks. At first, this might not bother you, but the odds are you’ll fall victim to self-esteem issues. You can fight back with the help of a mental health specialist, but it can be challenging.
9. Keeping Up
The people you are going to meet are going to be quite successful, and that can mean they will own things you probably never dreamed of owning. You’ll see expensive brands, expensive cars, and expensive jewelry. Maybe you’ll fight the urge for some time, but many people will start to feel like they need to keep up with everyone else.
You may feel like all brands must match when wearing clothes. It may start to feel like you are being judged because you aren’t wearing the latest fashion or because you are still driving that old vehicle of yours. It’s hard to fight off these feelings, but that doesn’t mean it is impossible as long as you are aware of yourself at all times.