How to Date Rich Men and Get Paid?

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Love is a many splendid thing… those words are certainly true. We all crave love, it at the very least its affable cousin companionship, it’s one of the earmarks of being a human being. We want someone to have fun with, to share things with, to engage with in a meaningful way. But what does one do when they have everything that they could ever want, resources and power that put the entirety of the world at their fingertips, and yet companionship and the possibility of love remain elusive? For many rich men, they choose to fill the companionship voice in their life with a companion for hire. Men who have a hard time finding beautiful women to date and spend time with will often turn to women of poise, bearing, and interesting character and provide them with a decent income to provide companionship. They are looking for more than just a chance to pay for dates, they are looking or a chance to connect to another person meaningfully. This is a very old and widely respected practice among the well-heeled, going back decades before the concept of the “girlfriend experience” existed. So how can you, a woman who is looking for companionship with wealthy gentlemen take advantage of this opportunity to put it more succinctly, how can you get paid to date rich men? Let’s look at a few ways, shall we?

Why Would You Want to Date Rich Men for Pay?

Get paid to go on dates with rich men
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Before we get into the ways that you can date rich men and get paid, first let’s take a moment to look at why you might want to get paid to date a rich man. Aside from the obvious that is would be an enjoyable way to make an income, there are also some other factors that may draw you to this path.

These men are looking for a way to share their life and success with someone that they feel they can actually connect with. While they recognize that his type of arrangement very well may not lead to a long term “soul mate” relationship, they are happy to have someone to spend time with, and as such, they will freely give of their time, resources, and attention. Many times, dating a rich man for pay involved getting more than your rate, it can also lead to attending lavish parties as your patrons’ guest, having fabulous meals in the top restaurants in town, having access to stunning clothing, and even receiving amazing gifts. These are men who are desperate to give, and love, and share their lives with someone, and you can be that person.

Of course, there is also the other side of the equation, the side that doesn’t involve the materialistic aspect of the arrangement. When get paid to go on dates with rich men, you are free to relax and be yourself. And so is he. You can connect in a more relaxed way that just isn’t possible when you are dating for relationship reasons. Paid dating lets everyone involved go into the arrangement with all cards on the table, and therefore no insecurities about having to impress each other. It’s a way for you both to just kick back, have fun, and enjoy what’s going on for what it is without any pressure.

Some services act as a “matchmaker” service, in this case, the man hires the dater for the first date only, and if you hit it off, then you can continue to see each other either casually, or at terms that you establish amongst yourselves. Other services work with the dater/gentleman to handle the transactions and date setting for every encounter that you have.

How Can You Get Started Dating Rich Men for Pay?

So now that you see the many advantages of dating for pay, you may be asking how can I get started. The good news is that there a lot of great get paid to date website services online in both the pay to date, and the sugar daddy markets. Let’s take a look at some of these services now, and see how you can get started with them.

Paid to Date Services

Get paid to date website
WhatsYourPrice

Paid to date services often work as matchmaking services similar to traditional dating sites, but with more restrictive communications protocols. They also usually only offer searching of the database from the man’s (or if it is gender unbiased the “clients”) side. To use these services, you register as a dater and then wait for connections. Once a client is interested in your listing, he makes a connection and you can chat in a variety of ways (text/voice/email/video depending on the site). If you hit it off and you want to meet in person you book the date and payment is made on his part. Some services such as WhatsYourPrice.com only require paying for the first date via their system, after that, you work with the client directly for future dates or if you find you actually like each other you can move to a real relationship position. Other services such as RentADate.com ask that you book all dates and perform all transactions via their service for the protection of you both. Be sure to check the terms of service and operational pages of the site to see how the service functions. If it is an “all the time” service and you are found to be working “off book”, then you might very well be banned from the service altogether, and you could find that information being shared with other operators as well.

Let’s look at the steps to get started with a service such as What’sYourPrice, OhLaLa.com or others so you can get paid to go on dates with rich men:

  1. You will need some great looking pics, so spring for a few studio shots at an economy portrait shop. Also, make sure that you have a few great looking selfies as well.
  2. Have a nice wardrobe that is appropriate for the kind of venues, locations, and events that you will be attending on your dates. You don’t have to break the bank, but you do need to have some clothes and accessories that are appropriate. Check out resale shops, thrift stores, and consignment stores to build your wardrobe on a budget. You can expand it later.
  3. Fill out the profile information and sign up. The process is different on all of the sites so take your time and make sure that you fully understand the process as you progress through the sign-up.
  4. Upload pics, videos, and notes to your profile, and if needed make sure to activate your listing so that others can find you and make connections.
  5. Once you have a connection made, talk to the client. Get to know them, be fun, interesting, and engaging. If they like what they hear, then go ahead and book a date. Some services have a flat rate for dates, some assign a rate based on your rating, and others let you set your own rate. Once the date is booked make sure that you stay in touch with your client.
  6. If you have to change a date or cancel, make sure that you give a good reason why and let them know in plenty of time. This is especially true if they are planning to take you to an event or occasion as a plus one. They need plenty of time in advance to make other arrangements.
  7. If you have the option after the date to leave a review of the client do so, and also its always nice to send the client a note afterward to let them know that you enjoyed your time together and that you would like to see them again if they are so inclined.

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Sugar Daddy Services

Sugar Daddy Service
SugarDaddyMeet

Being a sugar baby is less like dating and more like letting someone who is very generous and loving take good care of you in exchange for your time and affections. Sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships have existed in some form or another for almost 200 years. While the terminology, implementation, and scope of these type of arrangements has evolved, the basic premise remains the same. An attractive, charming, and interesting person is given patronage by a wealthy, most of the time more mature, and generous benefactor in exchange for them showing an interest, attention, and concern for being their companion. This type of arrangement can often be more lucrative for a person than Paid to Date situations. You build a stronger connection, and as such the generosity of the men in question can be much greater. In most cases, you will have only one sugar daddy at a time, but since your relationship with them is much more rewarding, this is fine. In fact, you may find that you are able to enjoy yourself and be more relaxed about things in your life in this type of arrangement. If you are looking for a way to engage with a wide variety of people, however, this may not be for you. The amount of affection shown varies and is something that you will need to work out with the benefactor yourself.

Let’s look at how you can get started with sugar daddy/sugar baby dating on services such as SugarDaddyMeet.com, SugarDaddyForMe.com, and SecretBenefits.com:

  1. You will need some great looking pics, when it comes to sugar daddy services, you have to be a bit more alluring than with paid to date services. The men who participate in these type of arrangements are very much more sophisticated and demanding for their money, so you have to make sure that you give them your best possible presentation. So, spring for a few studio shots at a higher end portrait shop. Also, make sure that you have a few great looking selfies as well, have them professionally done if possible, for quality, or if you do them yourself, make sure you use a really great quality camera or a higher end phone.
  2. Have a very high quality and diverse wardrobe at your disposal that includes an array of options that are appropriate for the many different kinds of venues, locations, and events that you will be at when you are out with your benefactor. * Most of the time you can expect your “daddy” to take you shopping regularly, as he will want to get you things that he will enjoy seeing you in, but you will need items of your own as well to get started and to mix into your new items rotation. The key is to always let him guide your appearance, after all, he is “daddy” and it is his money you are enjoying.
  3. Fill out the profile information and sign up. The process is different on all of the sites so take your time and make sure that you fully understand the process as you progress through the sign-up.
  4. Make your profile as interesting as possible, talk about your life in blog posts, but don’t be too detailed, use videos of you and your friends to make you see more real and more charming, and of course keep the pictures fresh and new. They key is to make sure that you give enough information to make it interesting, but also keep a bit of mystery about yourself, after all, he will want to get to know you in his way in his time, and at the core, this relationship is more about him and his fulfillment anyway.
  5. Once you have a connection made, talk to the client. Get to know them, be fun, interesting, and engaging. If they like what they hear, then go ahead and book a meeting so you can get to know each other a bit more intimately than what an online board can offer.
  6. If you have to change your meeting or for whatever reason decide to cancel, make sure that you give a good reason why and let them know promptly, and with courtesy.
  7. If after your meeting you decide to enter into an arrangement, then always remember to be polite, professional, friendly, and most of all, faithful. Nothing will ruin an arrangement more than a “daddy” finding out that his “baby” has more than one benefactor in their life. In most cases, you end up losing them all when they start finding out. Think of your commitment to your benefactor as an exclusive employment arrangement with a traditional job.

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Girlfriend Experience Services

While we will not be addressing girlfriend experience services here in detail, they are a great way to make extra cash and have a lot of fun by making deeper connections than paid dating or sugar daddy options provide. If you are interested in these services, you can find lots of great information online about them.

Using Social Media Platforms to Be Your Own Boss

Of course, there is also the option to set out on your own and become a professional paid dater or establish yourself as a sugar baby without using a service. In this case, the social network multiverse can be your best friend. While using social media platforms like Twitter and Facebook can be more difficult than signing on with a service, you also have the ability to set a better price, market yourself in a variety of ways, and even go beyond what is allowed by the terms of service agreement of a connections service.

Facebook

When using Facebook, it’s almost as if you don’t have to do anything more than put up a profile pic and a few posts letting the world know that you are interested in spending time with gentlemen of means. If you have what it takes to attract the kind of men who are interested in engaging in this type of arrangement, then within a short period of time you will have plenty of friend requests to sort through. Of course, you want to be careful and only select men who have established profiles, and who make lots of information about themselves publicly known. This will help to ensure your safety. Let’s take a moment to look at some tips for using Facebook for professional dating:

  1. Establish a profile – get some professional studio shots done that show you in your best light, but don’t be overtly sexy or provocative.
  2. Build a base wardrobe that works for a variety of functions. Don’t worry, you can and will want to expand it later.
  3. Make friends & join adult friend finding groups on the service.
  4. Always make it very clear what you are about, don’t lead the men on with allowing them to think they are forming a real relationship when it’s just pay for dating.
  5. Post in groups info about your business offerings and use alluring pictures, but don’t be pushy.
  6. Make connections via messenger – and when others connect to you, make sure you engage actively.
  7. Make it very clear that you are offering companionship & social dating for pay, but not sexual services of any kind, ever.
  8. Keep a chat record of every encounter, and especially arrangements that are made.
  9. Be very clear about rates, and who is responsible for expenses on the date.
  10. Use invoicing tools and secure payment systems such as PayPal to handle transactions.
  11. Make sure you keep a very detailed calendar of your schedule, so you don’t overbook yourself.
  12. Always have a services agreement – just a basic 5×5 card with a simple statement of your terms and conditions that they gentlemen can sign to protect you legally.
  13. If things start to get serious with a particular client and you feel the same way, be open to talking about the future, and what you both want out of a further relationship. If you’re not on the same page, graciously walk away.

**NEVER POST IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION ABOUT THE CLIENTS YOU ARE DATING OR THE DATES YOU HAVE HAD PUBLICALLY – it’s OK to talk about the fabulous date you had but keep it generic and leave out details like names, etc.

Twitter

Using Twitter for professional dating or to find a sugar daddy is a little more difficult than using Facebook, but it also has many advantages, and a bit more freedom than what you find on “Big Blue”. For instance, Facebook is very restrictive about putting out in public that you are seeking to date in exchange for money. Twitter has a lot more gracious policy when it comes to such things. Of course, building an audience is not as easy in terms of a quick turnaround. But you may find that you get more positive results from your efforts on Twitter in many cases than you will on Facebook.

  1. Establish a profile – get some professional studio shots done that show you in your best light, but don’t be overtly sexy or provocative.
  2. Build a base wardrobe that works for a variety of functions. Don’t worry, you can and will want to expand it later.
  3. Make connections by following men who are successful and single.
  4. Post often about your services, and about other things in your life that show you are interesting, fun, exciting, and intelligent.
  5. Always make it very clear what you are about, don’t lead the men on with allowing them to think they are forming a real relationship when it’s just pay for dating.
  6. Make connections via messenger – and when others connect to you, make sure you engage actively.
  7. Make it very clear that you are offering companionship & social dating for pay, but not sexual services of any kind, ever.
  8. Screenshot every thread and chat encounter. This is especially important if dating arrangements that are made.
  9. Be very clear about rates, and who is responsible for expenses on the date.
  10. Use invoicing tools and secure payment systems such as PayPal to handle transactions.
  11. Make sure you keep a very detailed calendar of your schedule, so you don’t overbook yourself.
  12. Always have a services agreement card with you on the date – just a basic 5×5 card with a simple statement of your terms and conditions that they gentlemen can sign to protect you legally.
  13. If things start to get serious with a particular client and you feel the same way, be open to talking about the future, and what you both want out of a further relationship. If you’re not on the same page, graciously walk away.

**NEVER POST IDENTIFIABLE INFORMATION ABOUT THE CLIENTS YOU ARE DATING OR THE DATES YOU HAVE HAD PUBLICALLY – it’s OK to talk about the fabulous date you had but keep it generic and leave out details like names, etc.

Deciding to date rich men and get paid is a great way to have fun, have a nice income, either full time or on the side, and meet a wide variety of interesting men who are eager to get to know you and spend time in your company. Just remember to always be professional, never feel compelled to do anything, be with anyone, or go anywhere that makes you feel uncomfortable, and always remember to take proper safety precautions. Good luck, and above all else, have fun!

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